Never knowing what I wanted as I child (or what I wanted to do for that matter) I tried my best to pick up as many skills as I could, one of which is reading people as easy as your reading this. Its really a skill that I thought would never come in handy. I’d liked to tell you some ways to find out if someone is lying to you, or maybe you can lie better whatever you feel like doing.
Eye contact
I can’t stress this enough, eye contact does not mean there telling the truth or lying and if you think that their not going to lie to your face then your strongly mistaken. Eye contact any works if you’ve known the person for many years and even then they could have just had a lot of practice. The thing to look for is eye color. Eye color is sometime to study as much as you can. Try asking something that you know they’ll lie about and watch the eye color, you’ll start to figure out that their eye color is changing.
Speech
The speech of who is lying is very important (if there smart and know how to twist the truth). A lie is like “Did you have sex with that girl?” “No.” and then there’s “No I did not have sex with that girl.” first of all what girl. They will also use words or phases that they never used before. Hostel, this is a sign that you don’t want to trigger it can or mostly will turn violent.
Body language
Body language is very neat a person will throw their hands everywhere or give you mean face like how can you say those things. In my opinion their bullshiting you. It’s rare to throw your hands everywhere and be telling the truth, and if they give you that mean look then they know your going to feel bad. What you have to remember is you have to know these things there important to you.
Mostly if there lying they will sell anyone out to stay out of it. If they take the blame they won’t being lying. If you try a few of these tips it should help. Just remember there are Pro’s and then… well all the dumb people.
Saturday, February 9, 2008
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